Strong. Weak. Incapable. Unintelligent Hood. Ghetto. Bold. Protective. Dream chasers. Father. Son. Lover. Provider. Smart. Knowledgeable. Mean. Indecisive. Flirty. Religious. Womanizer. Abuser. Controlling. Loving. Warm hearted. Sensitive. Felon. Giver. Friend. Loyal. Betrayer. ……..Lost.
Dear My lost young Man. I hear your silent cries, while they are internal they still fall. I feel your pain, the feeling of being unaccepted, unguided, mislead, betrayed, still haunts you to this day. That smile you wear on your face everyday to hide the feelings of insecurity or inadequacy from others is so apparent to me. I understand you have no motivation, the ones who should empower you most have the ability to belittle you in ways you never new possible, yet they silence your concerns with a simple 3 words, I love you. The responsibility of being so strong , and untouchable, having no weak spots visible is what thrives you to keep up the pseud of “everything is ok” , while your barely maintaining mentally finding it hard to sustain through the many trials you face on a daily. Not to mention….The mother issues, the father issues or their lack of. The woman you have found yourself with only to realize you don’t really love her like she loves you, you find comfort in the nurturing spirit she offers due to the lack of attention, acknowledgement or stability from your child hood, causing you to lack the emotional attachments she requires because how can you love someone when you haven’t really been foundation-ed to love yourself. I Get it. You see somewhere along the way we and i say we because i am speaking as women in general, we have lost touch with how to uplift , empower, encourage and show our man that we love you, regardless of the connection, whether it be, intimate, platonic, or acquaintanceship wise. We have to show you , that you are special, you are important, and as happy as we are capable of being by ourselves living the Independent life successfully driven and all, we still crave the attention desire, and touch of an amazing man!. You see you are a reflection of us, how we act, how we talk, walk, what we desire, what we expect and what we accept all begins with us. So i am going to say this. I need you. I want you. You are an amazing strategic creation of God and we desire to connect with you , spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically. I vow to cherish you, help you to become a better man, show what a Really Great Amazing woman you deserve, through my actions. I will nurture your spirit and guide you and your imperfections to a common ground. i wont beat you down or condemn you for not being who others perceive that you should be. I wont shut you out, i will allow you to touch places spiritually no one is capable of knowing but us. We will be iin sync I will support you and your dreams and assist you as we assist each other in achieving every last one of them. I WILL NOT ALLOW YOU TO DIE! SPIRITUALLY. EMOTIONALLY OR MENTALLY. I HAVE YOUR BACK, WE ARE ONE. The world , nor society cant do anything to you that i am not able to repair. I will build your confidence and in return you will do the same for other young men. YOU WILL BE AN AMAZING FATHER, an amazing husband, friend and lover. You will. YOU CAN. I WILL HELP YOU.
The woman you desire.
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