I know, it seems like a very egotistical thing to do based on “normal” standards right? Well that whole thought process is all wrong! You see the reason we end up in horrible relationships, have horrible finances, indecisive when it comes to career choices, unhealthy mentally, spiritually, emotionally and physically, is because of failing to commit to YOURSELF. You have no idea what you like,
what you enjoy, what you fear , why you fear it or even how to overcome any of it because you focus so much time, committing to others & their wants, needs, desires etc,that you drain yourself and have no idea who you are. You must spend time with yourself, date yourself, love on yourself, because the reason you attract all of these unfulfilling relationships is because you reflect who you are inwardly. Dysfunction, chaotic, angry, frustrated, unstable amongst other things. It is time to let go of everything you thought you knew about yourself and truly find who you are, because only then will you truly know what you deserve. How can a man or woman love you unconditionally when you don’t love yourself? How can people exude loyalty to you when you don’t do it for yourself? Your Idea of unconditional love and happiness does not match with what you show yourself. You can not be a wife, mother, sister , friend, executive or anything else and not truly connect with your inner self. You deserve to be happy, but you wont ever be until you learn what true happiness really means. You over indulge in food, men , women, spend too much money , not because you truly like those things but because those minutes of excess give you validation that you cant seem to find anywhere else& that only last briefly.
You owe it to yourself to dig deep, find your true passion, spend time learning who you are inside and out , once you do you will begin to attract love, happiness , joy and prosperity like no other! Trust me! #JourneyToBetter Phase 2 Getting back to yourself.