Are you ready for what it is you say you want?……No REALLY READY?

OK, I can already feel the confidence (or the illusion of such) as you answer this question. I know so many of you are like …OK, what kind of dumb question is that? Of course I am ready to be happy, at peace, financially fluid , out of debt, done with school, at a place in life where it is all peaches , berries and maybe a little kale (notice i said a little kale because we know even though kale is good for you, the rough texture and bitter taste is an acquired one and not our favs of veggie choices if any, however since its necessary to have a balance with all the sweetness, we will take it…Same is equivalent to life and the not so pleasantries that can come with it)….Non the less YES I am ready! 

Truth is, when we get down to the nitty, gritty, funky truth about it, most of us are not truly at a place capacity wise (inner or outer), where we can truly say if what we claim to want today suddenly appears , it wouldn’t catch us at a not so prepared time. Which means obtaining said desire will most likely be the newest “curse” in our lives. We will either destroy it or it will destroy us, placing us 10 steps back from where we are aiming to be. This can be in relationships (many are wanting the epitome of a partner, yet still balancing or trying to balance a plethora of options, emotionally unavailable, carrying so many bags from previous partners, in between, past lives , lack effective communication skills, not willing to compromise, bend or allow someone in mentally etc. ( boo thang anonymous should be created for some of y’all, NO Tea or SHADE as the millennial’s say lol! No judgment from me, hell I too have had my share of options and enjoyed a plethora of such, had to rid old stale baggage, lacked willingness to compromise,communication (hard to believe I know) tolerance was super low & patience non existent! TRUST me I too have had to climb out of the inner pits of self inflicted emotional, mental HELL, chilllle…) but we aren’t talking about me…so mind ya business lol!)
Any way, back to my point at hand , you cant say you want a partner in a serious manner, and you are not truly at a place to receive them,  You cant expect to flourish in any part of your life be it career, life, relationships, finances, self, etc and you are not at a place to make room, nourish and invest time, energy, sacrifice, compromise & parts of who you thought you were to growth & necessary purge moments, to ensure its overall success. It just wont work and TRUST ME I know the struggle is real and for many its just something many are not willing to go through and that too is understandable, but if the latter is not you, you have to understand with desire comes some destruction. In order to make room for what you desire, you have to start at the most important phase of it all…..FOUNDATION OF SELF.
These next 2 segments ( part one and part 2) because YES I have a lot to say..per usual…judge me not or judge me, either way…you are being blessed with my wisdom light & ethereal magic, lets all shout AMEN, HALLELUJAH, ( OK focus, lol)… Continue reading “Are you ready for what it is you say you want?……No REALLY READY?”

It’s time to remove the “Illusion’s” & become acquainted with your truth’s.

Have you ever gone into a store and tried on an outfit, hat , jacket or pair of shoes and looked at yourself in the mirror & just thought ....Hell To the Naw! This is not me? It wasn’t that the item you tried on wasn’t nice or “Fly” or that it didn’t fit, it was just that once you saw yourself in it, it just didn’t feel like you. It didn’t give you that feel of YES , I’M IN THE BUILDING! More of a…. “oh hey I’m here”  type of vibe. 

Trust me you are not alone. We have all been awakened by the uncomfortable truth of at times, no matter how popular, how well put together or valuable something may appear to be, its just not for us & this is OK. The issue is so many of us despite this reality still move forward, regardless to how  uncomfortable, ineffective, or beneficial it is to our growth. This can be in any area of our lives be it relationships, career choices, health & well being etc. Settling for what is available is a more acceptable option, often times at the expense of our authentic truths.  Continue reading “It’s time to remove the “Illusion’s” & become acquainted with your truth’s.”

~Pause, Breathe, & Flow~

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Strong. Weak. Incapable. Unintelligent  Hood. Ghetto. Bold. Protective. Dream chasers. Father. Son. Lover. Provider. Smart. Knowledgeable. Mean. Indecisive. Flirty. Religious. Womanizer. Abuser. Controlling. Loving. Warmhearted. Sensitive. Felon. Giver. Friend. Loyal. Betrayer.

I hear your silent cries, while they are internal they still fall. I feel your pain, you know those deep rooted internal feelings of being unaccepted, misguided, betrayed,  & forgotten that  still haunt you to this day.
The  smile you wear on your face everyday that you  have mastered in order to hide the feelings of insecurity or inadequacy from others is so apparent to me.  You internally battle”finding the motivation to keep going,  while those who should empower you most have the ability to brutally rip your soul out of your body,  only to soothe  your inner demons with  3 simple yet very complex words, I love you.  Damn.
Truth is, the responsibility of being so strong and untouchable to the naked eye is what pushes you to keep up the pseud of “everything is ok , all the while  barely maintaining mentally & finding it hard to sustain. Continue reading “~Pause, Breathe, & Flow~”

~Authentically Living your Dash In Between~

We are all on this journey called life together, our paths are in most cases totally different, our experiences vary in many different forms but still, we are existing in the flesh on this journey together. For so many existing is how they maneuver in life, because they haven’t identified what their purpose to live is, and the inability to identify who you are, what you contribute and the purpose of it all, is the reason so many are secretly fighting deep rooted internal wars that will ultimately cause self destruction.

The thing is, its imperative to take your journey of self & its evolution extremely personal, by not allowing people and their monolithic group holds stifle you. You deserve MORE! You owe yourself MORE & this world NEEDS more truth & authenticity FROM YOU. We have two guaranteed dates in life, the day we are birthed on this planet & the day we leave, that space in between is yours. How long or short it is we have no idea, but however long it is matters not because what you do with the time you have is what really matters. Ask yourself , what will your spirit leave behind and inspire those closest to you to be.

This weeks episode is talking about just that, how personal your journey of self is and why not seeing it as such affects you in all aspects of your life, both internal and external.

Listen below:

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