Truth is so many people will never get any further than they currently are for this one main reason…….They possess and live off of the woe is me, Ive been defeated mentality. What is that? It’s the prison in your mind that keeps you chained to your past, who hurt you, what you didn’t have, who took what, what mom did, why dad wasn’t there, what you have lost , your financial status, etc so on. I know you are thinking, well I cant get over it, Continue reading “Journey To Better Phase 2- Day 5- Letting GO of the “Woe Is Me Victim Mentality””
Lets face it, we have goals we want to achieve and things we desire to have in life but there are a few things holding us back. Old Hurt, old baggage from childhood, anger issues, lack of self-control, lack of organizational skills, no actual plan of how to work towards the goals you want set, home is chaotic, lacking stability, old traditions, phone log full of too many ” In case of people” You know the ones, you call in case you are drunk texting,or in case you are bored, or in case you wanna gossip, etc so on. Not that these things feed into your life to assist in growth, but because they “Fill” your life to take up the empty space you can’t figure out within yourself to actual address. Those are stand by drainers. As dysfunctional as they may be , and no matter how miserable you may be around them, you can’t get enough. Well this is the reason you cant become who you are destined to become, because you refuse to release the ties that bind you to you a comfortable place. You would rather be around and within familiarity oppose to adapting to the unfamiliar because it seems more relatable. Imagine how much better you would feel if you actually achieved the things you say you want to do. Wouldn’t that be amazing? Well let me give you some tips that helped me, I wont act as if it was easy because it was not, but it was necessary and worth it!
- Change your perception of who you think you are– You have to get rid of the programmed thoughts on what you think you know about yourself, because until you do, you will only be able to go as far as your mind allows.
I know, it seems like a very egotistical thing to do based on “normal” standards right? Well that whole thought process is all wrong! You see the reason we end up in horrible relationships, have horrible finances, indecisive when it comes to career choices, unhealthy mentally, spiritually, emotionally and physically, is because of failing to commit to YOURSELF. You have no idea what you like, Continue reading “Journey To Better Phase 2 : Day 2- Commit to YOURSELF!”
I have consciously not spoken publicly about the above controversy or “Views” regarding what has now become the “To HAVE” topic of discussion as of late, Because for one my opinion is a strong one, and as any time i speak i choose to speak from an authentic place, and two I look at it in a totally diverse way when approaching. I don’t have I what I like to call a ” Converting syndrome” which is the mentality that many unknowingly operate from. Its the mentality that once they “feel” view” or believe a certain way or thing, & once they share those, feelings, views or beliefs with other’s that the other person should suddenly agree or believe it as well. And if they don’t, Well, it changes their perspective of the person and suddenly they are no longer able to coexist. Which you see so often, with religion, culture, social status etc. For example, let say you have a friend you have never had a discussion with about marriage. Now, YOUR belief is you should marry before children or marry before you live together, now unbeknownst to you, your friend doesn’t believe that marriage is the ultimate gratification for showing you love someone. Prior to this conversation you thought the world of this friend you felt this friend was the wisest person you knew, BUT once you Continue reading “Beyonce ,Baby Blue Ivy, The Controversial Debate over Her Hair & The Message It REALLY Sends!”
In the last few months, so many have asked me about mentoring. And even though it is the basis of what i do, I felt that on a wider platform it would be awesome for me to create an audio series , filled with advise, encouragement and tips for daily living, creating a brand, health and fitness etc! And to my surprise it was a huge success! I didn’t realize how much people loved to hear me talk lol. No seriously, Every Sunday i would send over 150 people an email link with that Sunday’s class, and sometimes people would email me if for whatever reason I missed one. SO classes where for 4 weeks and based on the turnout people really liked it! 🙂 which im excited about! In anticipation of my debut Book, Ive decided to share with you all the classes that those people where able to experience and I hope it helps you as much as it has helped them! Let me know your thoughts ( Im sure you will ) 🙂 #B.Michavery
Strong. Weak. Incapable. Unintelligent Hood. Ghetto. Bold. Protective. Dream chasers. Father. Son. Lover. Provider. Smart. Knowledgeable. Mean. Indecisive. Flirty. Religious. Womanizer. Abuser. Controlling. Loving. Warm hearted. Sensitive. Felon. Giver. Friend. Loyal. Betrayer. ……..Lost.
Dear My lost young Man. I hear your silent cries, while they are internal they still fall. I feel your pain, the feeling of being unaccepted, unguided, mislead, betrayed, still haunts you to this day. That smile you wear on your face everyday to hide the feelings of insecurity or inadequacy from others is so apparent to me. I understand you have no motivation, the ones who should empower you most have the ability to belittle you in ways you never new possible, yet they silence your concerns with a simple 3 words, I love you. The responsibility of being so strong , and untouchable, having no weak spots visible is what thrives you to keep up the pseud of “everything is ok” , while your barely maintaining mentally finding it hard to sustain through the many trials you face on a daily. Not to mention….The mother issues, the father issues or their lack of. The woman you have found yourself with only to realize Continue reading “A letter to My lost Young Men…..#B.Brave”
Hey YOU>>>YEA YOU>> Mr. Amazing!..Listen>>( Clears throat..) come here…a lil closer….Your amazing and by that i mean, any woman who you spend your life with is a true reflection of how amazing you are!..She should compliment you in ways more than physical , her tone should exude confidence yet very lady like, her vocabulary should stimulate you intellectually and her presence alone should be felt in a room of many without her having to say a word!…Listen because “We” amazing women need you to be YOUR best, and we know how hard it is to be successful daily, We know the battles you fight as a man we as women may never understand, we know the importance of uplifting, empowering and assisting our “Man”( NOT GROWN BOYS) To be the best version of themselves! We will uplift each other and embrace all the imperfections to make them perfectly fit us……..NOW have an amazing day. Muah…#B.Michavery.
This disorder many Men experience however its not widely spoken about…What is M.O.D?
Read more: Male Orgasmic Disorder http://www.health.am/sex/more/male_orgasmic_disorder/#ixzz1znFUZBwA